To forewarn those who stumble upon this blog, the post that I am about to create is one that could be compared to being drunk and the thoughts that come in that state of mind. I will start with a topic that sounds like a good idea in my head and as I regurgitate the information I will then discover that I am either a. a genius or b. an idiot. Whichever I discover this I won't stop because I will either be attempting to save myself or living off the glory of a good idea (most likely the first).
Women. Look at that, you know this going haywire already. I have the hardest time cracking their case. I hate their games, I hate everything about how they work. However, I'm always going back for more. It's bizarre how they manage to do that. I'm in a situation right now where I am seeing this girl who is fun, good looking, and just an all around cool girl. One day, we can't stop texting and talking to each other. It's like high school all over again. The next day, stone cold, no response to a text, nothing. So, I stop contacting her and 24 hours later she starts it up again as if I were never ignored.
We've been out a few times alone and it's been great. It isn't uncomfortable at all, we always have something to say, we both enjoy the time and leave the date smiling. All we've done is kiss but, it is very apparent that neither of us want to push into anything to fast, if anything at all. We're just going with the flow, which I like. The last thing I need right now is a serious relationship or any kind of drama. I just turned 24, and yes I may be getting to age where some want to get married but, I just also just got out of a serious 3+ year relationship and I want to see what else is out there for a while. I'm not ruling anything out but, I'm keeping my options open. Keeping an open eye on the horizon as I enjoy the present.
I digress. Anyhow, why the games? Are the games really necessary? Does playing hard to get really increase a person's admiration for another. It certainly does. It sucks as much as the break up that my partner in crime talked about below but, it's part of life. So, here's my advice. Since you are going to get played in situations like this and the aforementioned break up, play the game yourself. Enjoy it. Make the most of it. Turn lemons into lemonade. Put your beer goggles on and make that "eh" girl look like a super model. Play the cards you've been dealt and make them fun, bluff if you have to. Just enjoy your life.
That's my best advice for you. Take it or leave it and do what you want with it because there are two ways to go about this. 1. You can mope and get sucked in their games or 2. you can enjoy a situation that can be potentially be awkward and just live in the moment. Enjoy life, because you only get one shot at and you only get one shot to be young. When you wake up in the morning you are a little bit older than you were the day before. You're losing time so, take advantage of the life you got and live it up now. Play the game. Get in the driver's seat and play the game on her because if you don't she's going to play you like a fiddle.
I know this is a jumbled post but, it's what is on my mind. It does make sense to those who find themselves in a situation like this so, do as I say, not as I do and play the game. Girls hate it, but they'll keep coming back. They love what they can't have more than guys do.
-Makine
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